Keith Lee Made the Call for Gary, and the World Listened.

Sometimes leadership doesn't come from a government building.

Sometimes it comes from somebody with a phone, a platform and enough compassion to say, “Something needs to be done.”

That's what caught my attention about what happened in Gary, Indiana.

Keith Lee has built one of the largest and most influential food platforms on social media. People know him for walking into restaurants, trying the food and giving his opinion. But this time, the conversation became much bigger than food.

When Gary needed help, Keith Lee used his platform to bring attention to the community—and people responded.

And THAT is where Tamika's Take comes in.

I believe there is something powerful about watching everyday people recognize a need and move. No endless meetings. No waiting around for somebody else to decide whether people are worthy of help. Somebody saw a problem, used the influence they had, and helped mobilize others.

Let me tell you, influence means very little to me if it never becomes impact.

That's the part of this story that stayed with me.

We live in a time when a person with a cellphone can sometimes bring national attention to an issue faster than traditional institutions can respond. That's powerful—but it should also make us ask some uncomfortable questions.

Why does it sometimes take a celebrity, influencer or viral video for struggling communities to be seen?

Why are citizens expected to wait while resources exist?

And what does leadership actually look like when people need help right now?

I'm not suggesting that social media influencers can or should replace government. They shouldn't. Government has responsibilities that individual citizens and content creators simply don't have.

But there's a lesson here for every person with a platform—whether you have 100 followers or 10 million.

You don't have to wait for permission to make a difference.

Your platform can entertain people, absolutely. But it can also educate, mobilize, connect resources and shine a light into places the rest of the world may have overlooked.

Keith Lee made the call.

People listened.

People moved.

And regardless of where you stand politically, I think that's worth paying attention to.

Compassion works. Leadership doesn't wait.

— Tamika's Take

Should Children Under 16 Be Banned From Social Media?

I DIDN’T LET ELECTRONICS RAISE MY CHILDREN.

Every time the conversation comes up about banning children under 16 from social media, I find myself looking at it from two different angles.

On one hand, I absolutely understand the desire to protect children.

On the other hand, I always come back to this question: At what point does protection become government overreach into parenting?

I raised three children in a household where electronics had boundaries long before this became a national conversation.

My children were in upper high school before I allowed Instagram. They were in their 20s before Facebook became an option for them. My baby girl was in the 9th grade before she even got her first cell phone.

And television? Limited.

Not because I thought technology was evil. I simply believed there were things my children needed to learn, experience and develop before a screen became one of the loudest voices in their lives.

They read.

They created.

They used their imaginations.

They had conversations.

They learned how to entertain themselves without constantly being entertained.

Let me tell you, allowing electronics to raise my children was never an option for me.

That was my responsibility.

And that’s where this conversation gets complicated.

Children Absolutely Need Protection

I don't think we can pretend social media is harmless.

Children are growing up with access to opinions, images, trends, strangers and information at a level previous generations never experienced. And unlike television when many of us were growing up, this isn't something that turns off when the show ends.

It's in their pockets.

It's at school.

It's beside the bed.

It's following them everywhere.

So yes, I believe parents need to pay attention. We need boundaries. We need conversations. And we need to know what our children are consuming.

But does that automatically mean the government should decide that every child under 16 should be prohibited from social media?

That's where I hesitate.

Where Do Parents Fit Into This?

Parenting has never been one-size-fits-all.

One 15-year-old may have the maturity to responsibly use social media with parental supervision, while another may not.

That's a parenting decision I believe families should have a significant voice in making.

At the same time, I don't think social media companies should get a free pass either.

If platforms are going to profit from young people's attention, then they should have a responsibility to build safer environments, provide parents with meaningful controls and be transparent about how their platforms affect children.

This can't become another situation where all of the responsibility gets dumped on families while billion-dollar companies simply say, “Well, you should have watched your child better.”

No.

There's enough responsibility to go around.

Tamika's Take

I'm big on protecting children.

I'm also big on parental rights and personal responsibility.

So for me, the bigger conversation isn't simply:

“Should children under 16 be banned from social media?”

It's:

What responsibilities belong to parents?

What responsibilities belong to social media companies?

And when should government intervene?

Because protecting our children matters.

But so does making sure we don't slowly hand over every parenting decision because parenting has become difficult in a digital world.

I made the choices I believed were best for my children.

Other families may choose differently.

And THAT is exactly why this conversation deserves more than a yes-or-no answer.

So what's your take? Protection—or government overreach?

— Tamika's Take

A Simple Wellness Routine for Moms Ready to Take Their Power Back

Let me tell you something most moms don’t hear enough — your health is not a luxury, it’s a responsibility. And no, that doesn’t mean perfection, green juice every day, or two-hour workouts. It means awareness, intention, and small choices that add up.

As a mom and a two-time stroke survivor, I learned this the hard way. I used to think I was “too busy” to focus on myself. What I didn’t realize was that being busy didn’t protect me — it nearly cost me my life.

That’s why I teach simple, realistic wellness routines that work in real life. Not someday. Not when the kids are grown. Right now.

Here’s a daily wellness routine you can actually stick to.

🌅 Morning: Start With Awareness (5–10 Minutes)

Before emails, before scrolling, before everyone needs something from you — check in with your body.

Ask yourself:

• How did I sleep?

• Am I tired or rested?

• Am I stressed before the day even starts?

Tracking things like sleep, heart rate, steps, and daily movement helps you notice patterns you’d otherwise ignore. Awareness creates power. You can’t change what you don’t see.

👉 This is why I personally recommend using a simple fitness tracker — not for pressure, but for clarity.

🚶🏽‍♀️ Midday: Gentle Movement Over Intense Workouts

You don’t need a hardcore gym routine to be healthy.

A walk after lunchTaking the stairsStretching between tasksHitting a realistic step goal

Movement tells your body, “We’re taking care of you.”

A tracker helps you see:

• How much you’re actually moving

• When you’ve been sitting too long

• Progress you didn’t even realize you made

And let me tell you — those little wins matter more than you think.

🧠 Evening: Wind Down With Intention

Your body heals when you rest. Period.

That means:

• Powering down earlier

• Breathing instead of scrolling

• Creating a calm bedtime routine

Tracking your sleep can be eye-opening. Many moms don’t realize how little quality rest they’re getting until they see it in front of them.

Information creates change — not guilt.

💛 Why I Recommend a Fitness Tracker for Moms

This isn’t about obsession or numbers. It’s about listening to your body before it starts screaming.

A simple fitness tracker can help you:✔ notice stress patterns✔ improve sleep habits✔ stay consistent with movement✔ feel empowered instead of overwhelmed

If you’re ready to start paying attention to your health in a realistic, non-judgmental way, this is a great first step.

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Final Word

You don’t have to wait for a diagnosis to change your habits. You don’t have to do everything at once. You just have to start paying attention.

Small, healthy choices made daily can protect your future — and your family’s.

And that, my friend, is taking your power back.

Connect with me

If this wellness routine resonated with you, let’s stay connected. I share daily encouragement, simple health tips, and real-life wellness for moms over on social media — because healing and healthy choices don’t stop with one blog post.

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• Instagram: @YourFavoriteStrokeSurvivor

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Let me tell you — community makes consistency easier. You don’t have to do this alone.